26 Mar Not everyone likes fraternities, but joining one was absolutely the right choice for me. Mostly, though, being in a fraternity was about friendship. Not brotherhood— brotherhood is an ideal, and 'ideal' is an adult word for 'fairytale'. It's a lie you tell to guys looking to join the fraternity during rush, and to yourself. Greek - Fraternity and Sorority Life, About Derpartment of Fraternity & Sorority Life, Greek - Fraternity and Sorority Life, News and Calendar, Greek - Fraternity and Sorority Life, Souncils and Chapters, Greek - Fraternity and Sorority Life Absolutely Awesome Chapter Homes! Fraternity and Sorority housing collage. 7 Mar Fraternity life ruins partying. Of course, there is more to college than going out on the weekends, but most students want to be able to go out if they so choose. The problem is that there aren't too many places for those of us under 21 to go. Freshmen usually can't get into house parties or bars; dorm parties.